成人依恋指的是个体成年后与重要他人产生的情感联结，这种联结使个体形成特定的依恋内部工作模式，影响着个体在关系中对外表现出的情绪或行为，当伴侣双方的依恋模式都为安全型时，双方会更有勇气和能力为伴侣提供支持，去解决冲突，他们在关系中也能够体验到安全舒适，保持情绪的稳定，但如果伴侣为不安全的依恋模式，伴侣双方则更容易采取消极的互动模式去应对冲突，并且容易出现分离焦虑，带来脆弱、危险和无助的糟糕情绪体验，进而使双方对亲密关系质量的评价降低。本研究采用情绪聚焦伴侣疗法（Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy）对不安全依恋风格的伴侣进行干预，并使用亲密关系经历量表-修订版与亲密关系满意度量表的前后测结果对该案例干预的有效性进行评估，以初步探索情绪聚焦伴侣疗法对不安全依恋风格伴侣的干预效果。

本研究对象为异性恋伴侣，男方26岁，在互联网工作，女方27岁，从事科研行业，研究者使用亲密关系满意度问卷（The Quality of Relationship Index,QRI）和亲密关系历程量表-修订版(Experience in Close Relationships.Revised,ECR-R)对伴侣来访进行依恋风格与亲密关系满意度的评估，最终确定伴侣中女方的依恋焦虑水平得分5.8，依恋回避水平得分4.4，为不安全依恋风格，且亲密关系满意度得分3.5，低于平均水平，男方的依恋风格施测结果为安全型，男方的亲密关系满意度为4.8分，处于平均值左右，此对伴侣适合作为研究对象。本研究共为该对伴侣提供了6次咨询以及1次在咨询结束四周后的回访。其中咨询分为三个阶段。采用了有关依恋的心理教育，及情绪聚焦疗法中的一些干预手段，如现场演练、打破负向互动模式、对互动和回应直接进行编排等。

最终的干预效果通过咨询目标达成情况、量表结果前后测对比、咨询师观察对比三个角度进行评估。咨询目标经评估全部达成，量表后测显示女方的依恋焦虑水平得分下降为1.9，相比前测降低67%，回避维度得分下降为1.6，相比前测下降64%，亲密关系满意度后测为7分，比前测提高100%，男方依恋风格前后测变化不大，仍保持安全型依恋，亲密关系满意度后测为5.8，比前测提高21%，咨询师的观察记录则显示，伴侣双方的肢体接触增加，在咨询中女方情绪更加稳定，能够采取更加有效的沟通方式来应对冲突。

因此本研究初步证明了在此案例中，通过情绪聚焦伴侣疗法干预伴侣中不安全依恋风格的对象可以有效提高伴侣双方的亲密关系满意度。

Adult attachment refers to the emotional connection that an individual has with significant others in adulthood. This connection enables the individual to form a specific internal working model of attachment, which affects the individual’s external emotions or behaviors in the relationship. When the attachment patterns of both partners are the same. When they are secure, both parties will have more courage and ability to provide support for their partners to resolve conflicts between partners. They can also experience security and comfort in the relationship and maintain emotional stability. However, if the partner is in an insecure attachment mode However, both partners are more likely to adopt negative interaction patterns to deal with conflicts, and are prone to separation anxiety, which leads to bad emotional experiences of vulnerability, danger, and helplessness, which in turn lowers both parties’ evaluations of the quality of intimacy. In this study, Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy (Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy) was used to intervene for couples with insecure attachment styles. An evaluation was conducted to initially explore the intervention effect of emotionally focused couple therapy on insecure attachment style couples.

The subjects of this study are heterosexual couples, the male is 26 years old, working on the Internet, and the female is 27 years old, engaged in the scientific research industry. (Experience in Close Relationships. Revised, ECR-R) evaluates the attachment style and intimacy satisfaction of partner visits, and finally determines that the female partner's attachment anxiety score is 5.8, and the attachment avoidance score is 4.4, which is an insecure attachment style. And the intimate relationship satisfaction score is 3.5, which is lower than the average level. The man's attachment style test results are secure, and the man's intimacy satisfaction score is 4.8, which is around the average level. This couple is suitable as a research object. The study provided the couple with 6 counseling sessions and a return visit four weeks after the session. The consultation is divided into three stages. Psychoeducation about attachment and some interventions in Emotion Focused Therapy are used, such as live drills, breaking negative interaction patterns, and direct choreography of interactions and responses.

The final intervention effect is evaluated from three perspectives: the achievement of the counseling goal, the comparison of the results of the scale before and after the test, and the comparison of the counselor's observation. After evaluation, the counseling goals were all achieved, and the post-scale test showed that the woman’s attachment anxiety level dropped to 1.9, 67% lower than the pre-test, and the avoidance dimension score dropped to 1.6, which was 64% lower than the pre-test. The test was 7 points, 100% higher than the pre-test. The man's attachment style did not change much before and after the test, and he still maintained a secure attachment. The post-test of intimacy satisfaction was 5.8, which was 21% higher than the pre-test. The counselor's observation record showed that , the physical contact between the partners increases, the woman's mood is more stable during the consultation, and she can adopt a more effective communication method to deal with the conflict.

Therefore, this study preliminarily proves that in this case, intervening in the partner's insecure attachment style object can effectively improve the intimate relationship satisfaction of both partners.