本文针对大学生对朋友使用的背称进行研究，通过对文献的对比分析，通过对语料库的统计分析和调查问卷结果的统计，探究对朋友的背称在语料库中的分布和在大学生中的使用情况。从各称谓中归纳出三种性别策略和四种表现方法，而它们又在不同的语境和不同的情感需求中有不同的表现。以“女”作为语素参与组成的新称谓的使用频率超过以“男”作为语素的称谓。然而这种不平衡，可以被零性别语素的称谓补偿。男性朋友在相互指称时，亲属称谓泛化的程度远高于女性。情境与称谓在等差与情感两个因素上是否相协调与该称谓能否被接受是高度相关的。将身份和情感作为分析称谓时的一组对立因素，在一致情境中，女性对身份更为注重；但是在在权势情境，男性对情感因素的遮掩超过女性。女性对[+情感]的称谓表现出更大的宽容。而亲属称谓泛化程度表现出明显的性别差异，这与社会观念之中，男性和女性在家族关系中是否稳定有关。总的来说，大学生对 [+情感]称谓的偏好，对称谓中[+身份]因素的削弱是男女共同表现出的特点，这体现在调查问卷收集结果与语料库统计结果相区别之处。

The paper concentrates on the differences of address for friends between two genders. The CCL corpus is used to get a rough understanding of the address system, and the questionnaire are made to get a original description of the differences between male and female students. Female are more often expressed with morpheme than male, while the large quantity of addresses without any gender morpheme compensate for this unbalance. 3 principles and 4 methods are summoned up from the addresses. Male use more kinship address. The power and solidarity are two essential factors when choosing an address. In solidarity situations, female are more likely to concentrate on status. Male, however, are more sensitive to identity in power situation. Female have more freedom choosing the address revealing emotions. The difference in generalization of family address between genders can be ascribed to the different stabilities in family relationship. In general, college students give preference to the address reveling equal status and strong emotional bond. Some addresses are abandoned by students, while others appear and are adopted widely.