随着社会的进步，独生子女政策的实施，家长教育子女水平的提高，家长打孩子的现象少了，但家长对孩子进行语言攻击的现象日益凸现出来。由于家长语言暴力给孩子造成的伤害是隐性的和长期的，以及中国传统文化对家长管教子女权利的认同，家长语言暴力没有引起家长和社会的广泛的重视。目前，有越来越多的研究者认识到，家长语言暴力对孩子发展有严重的危害，而对于这一问题的研究现在还很少。因此，本文试图提出该问题，以期引起人们对家长语言暴力的重视，并试图通过对家长语言暴力的类型、特点、危害和原因进行分析，在此基础上提出解决家长语言暴力问题的对策。研究结果如下：1．家长语言暴力是一种普遍现象，且对孩子的身心健康有明显的不良影响。2．家长语言暴力的类型分为“硬”暴力和“软”暴力。3．家长语言暴力的特点：随意性、隐蔽性、广泛性、长期性、破坏性和传承性。4．家长语言暴力对孩子、家庭和社会来说有较多危害。5．家长语言暴力的原因是多方面的。家长，孩子，社会文化和学校都是重要的影响因素。结合以上的研究发现，在总结已有的研究成果和经验的基础上，本研究分别从家长方面，孩子方面和学校方面给出解决家长语言暴力问题的对策建议。家长方面：1.树立新的家庭教育观念2.提高家长的语言修养3.坚持正确的家庭语言教育原则4.改进家庭语言教育的方法5.抓住家庭语言教育的时机6.丰富家庭语言教育的内容孩子方面：1.进行换位思考2.区分家长建议和表达方式3.树立积极的心态学校方面：老师发现孩子的闪光点，给家长和孩子权威暗示

With the development of society, the implementation of the One-Child Policy and the improvement of the parenting abilities, the phenomena that guardians hit children are less and less. However, we can’t ignore the fact that some children are suffering their guardians' verbal violence. The injuries are unobvious and long-term, and Chinese traditional culture endows parents rights to educate their children, so the verbal violence from guardians to the children has not drew a widespread attention. At present, more and more researchers have realized that the guardian's verbal violence does great harm to children. In order to draw more attention, the writer brings up this problem. Basing on the related research foundation, the writer carried on the diagnosis to the guardian’s verbal violence phenomenon, the major findings of the paper are as followed:1. The phenomenon of “verbal violence” from guardians to children is common in China families. Those words have obviously bad effects to children's physical and moral integrity.2. The “verbal violence” from guardians can be divided into “hard” verbal violence and “soft” verbal violence.3. The characteristics of “verbal violence” from guardians are as followed: capriciousness, confidentiality, universality, long-term characteristic, destructiveness and inheritance.4. The “verbal violence” from guardians does much harm to the child and the family.5. The reasons of the “verbal violence” from guardians are various. And the contributing factors include the guardian, the child, the social culture and the school. In order to eliminate the “verbal violence” from guardians, based on the above research, at the same time, making use of the former discovery in this area, this paper give suggestion separately from the guardian’s aspect, the children’s aspect and the school’s aspect. For guardians: 1. To exchange family education ideas 2. To enhance guardian's language art 3. To insist the correct verbal parenting principles 4.To improve the correct verbal parenting method 5. To catch the right parenting occasion 6. To enrich the correct verbal parenting content For children: 1. To try to consider things on the parents’ side 2. To differentiate between guardian’s suggestion and the way of expression 3.To set up a positive point of viewFor schools: To discover and praise children's strong points