本篇论文主要研究中日近代文坛两位重要作家——鲁迅与夏目漱石的婚恋书写。论文第一章分析鲁、夏作品中男女角色的设定，将两人作品中男女形象分为旧式和新式两类。第二章对鲁、夏作品中两性关系做了概念性总结，将其男女关系建构分为伙伴式、纯爱式与女尊式三种形式。同时，认为“男性本位”思想与“女强男弱”的新型婚恋格局是两人作品婚恋书写的相似处。而差异性在于鲁迅作品更多表现出被动的女性牺牲意识，漱石笔下女性更倾向于主动的自我选择。第三章探讨鲁、夏婚恋书写形成的渊源，认为十九世纪末新旧交替的中日社会背景与鲁、夏两人坎坷的婚恋经历都是影响二人作品婚恋观的重要因素。第四章挖掘两人婚恋观的建构意义。认为探讨鲁、夏作品的婚恋书写，在研究作者本人情感世界、当时社会两性状况及引导后辈青年树立正确婚恋观方面都具有重要意义。

This paper mainly studies two important writers of modern Chinese and Japanese literature - Lu Xun and Natsume Soseki 's writing. The first chapter analyzes the roles of men and women in the works of Lu and Xia, and divides the image of men and women into two types of old and new. The second chapter summarizes the gender relations in Lu and Xia works, and divides the relationship between men and women into three forms: partnership, pure love and female. At the same time, that the "male standard" and "strong women weak man" new marriage pattern is the similar work of the two works of marriage. The difference is that Lu Xun's works show more passive female sacrifice consciousness, Soseki women are more inclined to take the initiative to self-choice. The third chapter discusses the origins of the writing of Lu and Xia in the study of marriage and marriage, and points out that the social background of the Sino-Japanese society at the end of the nineteenth century and the ups and downs of Lu and Xia are the important factors influencing the marriage and fiction of the two works. The fourth chapter excavates the constructive meaning of the two marriages. It is of great significance to study the marriage and romance writing of Lu and Xia works in the study of the author's own emotional world, the social gender situation at that time and the guiding young people to establish the correct marriage and love view.