吕本中在两宋诗坛上是相当有影响并享有盛誉的诗人，他出身吕氏大家族，也正是凭借这个条件，使他结识了政治上和文学上的大批友人。再加上他自身的尚友意识，交游广泛。他交游的对象主要包括四类：僧人、理学家、士大夫和江西友人，这四类人各具特质，交游对象不同，对吕本中造成的影响也随之而异。 吕本中提出了著名的“活法”理论，这使他在文坛声名为之一振，而这跟他与僧人的交游是不可分割的，禅宗提倡“悟入”、“活参”，讲究“参话头”，吕本中受此启发而提出了著名的诗歌创作理论，这是从诗歌创作上来说；涉及到内容上，则必须提及与理学家的交游。吕氏家族中人素尚理学，社会上有普遍的尚理风气，在与理学家的交游过程中，诗歌增添了理性因素。细究起来，“活法”论还有着其精神内涵，与理学家的“心性”之说有相通之处；吕氏家族为政治大家族，吕本中在与士大夫的交游过程中，更加清晰地表现出了自己的忧国爱民思想，诗作中充分体现出了士大夫的主人翁意识和强烈的责任感；吕本中通过交游所受影响都反映到作品中，形成了自己的创作理论和风貌，但是一种风貌的形成必须得到广大文人的认可，而这个问题在其与江西友人的诗歌唱酬过程中得到了解决。 本文着重考察的是吕本中的交游是如何影响了他的文学思想并进而形成他个人的创作风貌的。

Lv Benzhong is a very influential and renowned poet between the poetry of the Song dynasties, he was born in the large family of Lv, it is also by virtue of the conditions in which he met on a large number of the political and the literary friends．Coupled with his own awareness of friends yet, he made friends widely．The object of his intercourse include four categories: monks, Neo-Confucian literati and Jiangxi friends, each with their own character, the impact on Lv Benzhong will certainly be different． As we all know, Lv proposed the famous "huo fa" theory, which is from the impact of the Friendship between him and the monks, Chan zong promote "wu ru", "huo fa" and stress "can hua tou," this inspired Lv proposed the famous poetry theory, which is on the run from the Poems; related to the content, you must mention his Philosophers friends, the Lv family praise highly the Neo-confucianism and so does the society. Intercourse with the Neo-Confucian, adding a rational factors into his poetry. Study carefully, "huo fa" on the content still has its spirit, and Neo's "xin xing" has something there in common with it; Lv family is a big political family, Lv met many Literary intelligentsias as friends.During the intercourse with them,he manifested his Patriotic ideas more clearly.The poems are full expression of the Literary intelligentsias's sense of ownership and a strong sense of responsibility.By making friends, what affected Lv was reflected in the works, then he developed his own theory and style of writing, but the new style must be recognized by the majority of scholars, and this issue had been resolved during the intercourse with the friends from Jiang-si． This paper discussed how Lv Benzhong’s intercourse influenced him and then influenced his literary creation and formed his personal writing style．